Anonymous asked: I've never really been comfortable with my body, but I've been "seeing" a guy for almost a year and a half now. The only reason why we're not together is because of the distance (Please don't lecture me on this. Our parents are friends and I've known him since I was born.) The thing is.. He's 17 and I'm 15. I don't have a problem with that. But I have a problem with the things that he wants from me. He asked me to take my top off on webcam and I told him that I didn't want to, and he tried to be supportive and tell me that he loved me already and that he wouldn't judge me, but because I refused, we ended up having a big argument. It's hard to see each other because of money issues and both being shy, but I told him that I'd really much rather do it in person rather than over webcam. I want him to be there with me, and I want to see how he reacts, rather than just being sat on webcam and feeling awkward. But despite me practically offering that to him, he's still not happy that I won't do it on webcam. He tends to get more and more angry when he doesn't get his own way, and just tells me that he doesn't care, which makes me feel as though he only wants me for what he expects me to have. I don't have big boobs. At all. I'm practically flat chested, and when I wear push-up bra's, there's never anything to push up. He says that he wouldn't judge me, but I just don't feel comfortable enough with myself to do it over a webcam. What do you suggest I tell him to make him understand, rather than argue?

dont give into him! stand by your deccisions, if your not coofortable, then dont show him over webcam! he can get the fuck over it. cuz if he doesnt really support your decisions like how he should..then hes not worthh  your time. and dont worry or be self concious. every girl has thinggs they may not love about themselves, but i assure you that your a beautiful person both inside and out. be comfortable with your body because  i know girls who are like double D’s and world kill to have insanely small boobs haha. just dont worry, and love yourself for who you are(:

Anonymous asked: Alright so my boyfriend and I are both virgins and dont have any std's. He preformed oral on me (ate me out), could I catch anything or am I just overreacting...

it is possible to get std’s from oral…but INSANELY rare. you would know is something was ‘wrong’. dont worry(: ur probs jus overreacting(:

Anonymous asked: Okay so I have been feeling really weird lately ever since i was with my boyfriend and we were so close to actually ya know 'doing it" but I wasnt in the mood and he kept forcing me and biteing me on my neck and then he finnally decided to take me home and ever since then I dont know why but I been having weird symptoms lately I been craving alot of blood and I have been getting these major migraine headaches and bright lights are irritating my eyes and giving me headaches. Also I'm cold all the time and for some reason my skin is getting so pale and I cant sleep at all!! I have this weird starvation for blood and my mom says she doesnt know whats wrong with me either and Im scared if there is something really wrong with me I also cant even go outside in the morning becuase my skin starts to glitter in the sunlight and everyone stares like I'm some kind of freak! ever since he bit me on my neck I have this bite mark that wont go away! so do you have any ideas why this is happening and why am I craving blood?

i just fucking died laughing….thank you anonymous person for completely making my day(:

Anonymous asked: i just recently learned that an old friend of mine had betrayed me. she had told my other friend that i had to many problems and that it was boring when i told her about them. she then took a piece of artwork that i made her and went around the whole school claiming it was hers. and getting jealous of the fact that after all this i prefer my other friend over her. i dont know what to do. she basically lied to me when she said she was "there for me" when i went through a rough patch in my life where i took up cutting again. i want to confront her. scream at her and tell her what a shitty fake friend she has been to me.but my heart says i need to keep calm and carry on. what should i do? yell at her and tell her what a fail she was as a "close friend" or say fuck it and slowly let her drain out of my life.

the mature thing to do is just let it roll off ur back and let her drain from your life. i know thats not as much fun. but it will avoid a shit ton of uneccisary drama. and drama is definently not what you want! she was an absolutly terrible friend to you, so you need to be the bigger person and just walk away..yah know? goodluck love<3 and im really sorry this happened:/

Anonymous asked: hey, so I was hoping you could help me out on this?
Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship, we're amazing for each other, but I don't feel good enough for him. Recently I saw him comment on another girls facebook photo, calling her sexy and other stuff like that. Him saying that to another girl makes me feel like shit. He knows how low my self esteem is, I mean he doesn't even comment on my pics calling me sexy or anything like that. He's an amazing guy and he tells me I'm beautiful everyday, but I get extremely jealous when I see him in pictures with other girls or evne just talking to another girl, what should I do?

just be honest with him, tell him how that affects you and tell him how much it lowers ur self esteem and how much it bothers you. if he truely cares about you as much as he says he does, he’ll hear you out, and try to change what he does. atfirst when you confront him…he may feel hurt or maybe even a little angry but he’ll realize how u feel in the end. itll be okay(: i promise<3 and if he doesnt even try to change..there may be some other flaws in yalls relationship that u need to find and try to work outtt.

Anonymous asked: hey, im really stuck for what to do. My ex is giving me trouble, I've messaged Brenna before about him but I have a different problem. He's a really aggressive person and he wont stop telling me he loves me, i've not done anything to lead him to believe I want to get back with him but now he's getting really possessive punching doors and stuff because i talk to other boys and iif he thinks theyre too close of friends to me, he gets jealous and threatens them, he thinks i don't know but i hear him tell people what he's going to do, he's got really scary when im talking to them and im scared he's going to do something. I feel like I can't do anything with him knowing, that's why i'm on anonymous right now, he stalks my tumblr, facebook, blogs or anything, making sure no one else can get me saying that I'm his and no one elses and now he's started lashing out at me but can't avoid him I really don't know what to do, it's getting to the point where he's really scaring me

you need to get you and a close guy friend of yours (preferably one thats bigger than him) and you need to confront him face to face. u gotta be bruteally honest. tell him he needs to fuck off, tell him he needs to get over you and everything yall had cuz its DONE. and your never gonna go back. tell him he’s scaring you and that in ur eyes…hes turning into a monster. be completly honest. and you cant turn around and text him or say “i hope we can be friends” because you wont be able to be friends with him for a veryy long time. you need a completly clean break from him. no talking or interactions what so everr after you confront him. (and for the record…the bigger guy friend that goes with you will give you a sence of security and saftey so your not timid to say anyhting or so that you dont hold back from saying anything. because u needs to get this all of ur chest and ultimately tell him to fuckk off.) because i had a friend whos bf/ex bf got like this…and ended up getttin physical with her. and i dont want you to go thro that atall. this shit pisses me of…i honestly wanna give this kid a good hit to the head. but i know youll be able to handle this the good and mature way<3 im here to help you with this…so if you need anymore advice..please dont hesitate to ask…anything! goodluck<3

carpe-diem-sabeel asked: I need help. My best friends ex boyfriend was about to kill himself today over i dont know, he told her and revealed alot of things about himself, and hes in the hospital now hes fine i heard, but i nee advice on what to do because my best friend thinks its her fault when its not and she doesnt know what to do

tell her to just breathe. if i was her fault..she would know all the answers. she wud know whtt she did wrong, etc. the fact that she doesnt knw the reasons why he actually did this..jjust shows that it had NOTHING to do with her. tell her to try and calm down. tell her it isnt her fault atall. and you all know that.its gonna be hard for her…thats for sure. but in time she will come to realize that it wasnt her atall. she just needs support from you and all her other friends. if you knw the ex bf well enough…when you get the chance, you should try and talk to him about how this is affecting her…and maybe try to ask him to talk to her and help her realize that it isnt her fault. but for the time being..just give her all the support you can. the main way she will be able to calm down is by her own personal realization. words from others will help…but it wont be able to heal her completly. so just suppport her in everything…and promise her everything will be okay, beacuse it will be. goodluck<3

Anonymous asked: i have crabs because i cheated on my boyfriend of two years with my community college teacher. im only 16 and my teacher is 27. I am freaking out and I don't know what to do. what should i do?

go to your doctorr or a drugstore and get treatedd for it. and u might wanna sit down and have a conversation with your boyfriend. bein honest sucks..bbut if u rlly care about him…youll allow him to know the truth. goodluck love<3

Anonymous asked: hey i've been trying to post something and its not letting me and it took me a long time to write it and its telling theres a broken link?

im not sure whaat to tell yah:/ if you put anything that even resembles a url addresss..it wont let you post it. but i got this message…so its not the ask box. it might just be the content of your messsagee

Anonymous asked: I've been wanting a tattoo for a while and there are sometimes I want it so so badly and other times I'm just not sure. I've already drawn up my idea and I love it more than anything I'm just not sure if I'm ready or if I really, truly want it. Do you have any advice? Should I wait until I'm 100%? Or am I'm just chickening out/scared of pain?

i honestly think that you need to wait till ur 100% sure. cuz if your havin 2nd thoughts then your not sure u want it. and this is something permanent. u also gotta think about how it might affect ur future. if its a drastic tattooo…or even somethin you can see while wearing clothes…that can very easily affect u getting certian jobs. so jus keep thinkin about it. youll make the right decision for you, as long as you dont rush yourself(: goodluck<3

Anonymous asked: How do you get over someone you've had feelings for for 3 1/2 years? I'm tired of him playing me & using me :(

you find someone else. thats the best wayy<3 find someone that actually cares about you and enjoys alot of the same things you do. being involved with someone else will make u realize how unhealthy it is to be with that other guy(: trust mee(: goodluck<3

Anonymous asked: Thank you for your fantastic advice :)

awh your so sweet! (: im just glad i can helpp<3

Anonymous asked: this is from the person with the long post. he tried to kiss me after 2 weeks of hanging out but I wouldn't let him so he just put his arm around me while we hung out, but now he doesnt do it anymore. I know I won't be able to make a move like holding his hand.. as long as he keeps asking me to hang out, I'm good right? I should stop overthinking things and feeling like I'm failing? lol

yess. definently stop overthinking(: when your ready to take things to the level of kissing and shit, then thats when you should try those little physical tricks(: but untill then, be yourself. and if you get a kiss, then thats a definent bonus, right?(: haha goodluck, love<3(:

Anonymous asked: I'm sick of making the effort with a friend who used to be really close. I always have to talk first and she never makes any effort to talk to me, then complains that we don't talk as much. Am I actually going mental here?!

Then tell her the truth. be like, i know you dont liek that we dont talk as much but i cant keep trying if your not gonna too. its not fair to me and it makes me feel like you dont care as much as i do.

Anonymous asked: I think I've lost my best friend because I was paranoid of losing him
I think he's gone for good and I can never tell him I love him
What can I do?

unfortunently, people come in and out of your life all the time. but if you really do care that much for him. tell him how much u care (even if your just refering to it as a ffriendship kind of love) and just let him know. that way, you know you did and said all you could<3 goodluck<3